look in my mind

Today a new man comes to you in this blog you will see the mind of a man who see that a woman

worth is more precious then gold most men might feel threaten by this why we feel that we is on top.

But what makes a man a woman! Most forget that their mother was a woman who raise them to be a

MAN! See my failed relationships has shown me that no matter how good you think you are the mind of a woman is a strong thing! Yes we men can think but while we are feeling all is well a woman is planing her next move and by the time we realize it she has already made her move and we didn't see

it coming! We feel if we lie enough or cheat all our life or act like we don't give a rats azz about you that what makes us men! Wow we been so wrong! See all this between us black men and women goes as far back as slaves! Now most might not like what I'm about to say but I'm a proud black man

who eyes has been open! We lost our rights when our fore fathers saw our women rape and beaten 

sold like beef in the store! We started treating our women as if they had no rights because we could

not see that they was the backbone of the black family! Most men will say we are the backbone of the

family but answer me this how many men gave birth to any child? Or how many men work come home clean and cook and raise children plus took care of his wife needs? See we got this thing twisted! Men will say how much we do well where is we at now? Not the head like we should be!

Take these three simple things and measure a man of 2016 by and see what you get! We have lost our place not because it was taken but because we don't fulfill the call to duty that has been place on us to do! Now it's not all our fault most women say how much they can't stand about a man but they do the same as we and is just as cold and don't care as the one they say they hate! How long is we going to go on thinking that we have to compete with each other to see who can hurt the most or how we are

not going to be played if you look at it we all lose!! That's why no one trust anyone any more! Wow

    look at that man spell upside down and backwards say naw! that is where we are NAW you won't have family,love,relationships,happiness,trust,faithfulness,commitment,or anything because every one feels like we can't deal with thing that we feel is not what we look for! My last words start loving

that what you have not what you want because if you stay long enough life will mold them into who

you need not what we want because man is never going to be great if we don't start see the importance of our women! peace pastorsvoice my mind on this matter!

 

lets talk about sex

Let's jump right in with a question? If the sex wasn't that great could you still love a person? To answer this many would say NO! But most don't get it if you want sex stay single! Because that's

all you are there for and no need to use the words I LOVE YOU that don't mean squat any more 

That's a phrase that people from my age on down have killed it! Most use it to get what they want 

and bam they are gone! Well if you are my age stuff don't work like it used to but if you care about

a person that part of your relationship can be treated where you can enjoy all. A person loyalty  truefulness and understanding will go much more farther then sex! Don't get me wrong it is a part 

but not the only part! Why? Try to pay your bills with it or go to the food mart tell them how much you bang and see how much food you get! Well look at this next picture and tell me what is what?

How do you forget that someone who you loved that only wanted you for sex not your mind or what you bring to the table or how much you care and then they really show you how their world is really. Most these days only see how much of a fool you can be so they can brag about what they did to trick you because you trust them! Lets laugh for a few I want you to be honest with your self when you look back you ask yourself what in the world was I thinking? I fell for a person who had great sex but not only with me my friends knew my rival knew even the one who called and ask for your mate on your phone that you is helping make payments on in your house that your mate had nothing to do with you getting your car that you let them drive because you felt like they really cared about you and last but not lease your family who told you not to do that but because you was in love you said I trust you bae! Oh how we get played for these four letters LOVE time for us good ones to wake up!!!!

TO ALL THAT MADE THAT MISTAKE LISTEN YOU ARE NOT ALONE THE BEST GO FOR A RIDE BUT I LEAVE YOU WITH THIS QUESTION [ WHY HURT SOME ONE WHEN YOU DON'T LIKE TO BE HURT?] PEACE PASTORSVOICE 

black men struggle

Well I sit here wondering where is our back bone? Most other races you see stick together and their

mates is their back bone the drive to have their family is what makes them work so hard to have.

But for the black man who we have? All is geared to stop his push to have a nice house nice car strong bank account and a loving wife. All that I just name we will show how we as a good black man or any man that is in this struggle but I can only speak from my stand point! First nice house don't get me wrong we have a nice house but a house is not a home with out love in it the mates of today is never happy with us they stay angry and say some crap as you can't handle a strong mate. How strong you really is when you can't see two incomes on one bill is way easier then one? All you know is how to put your man down see his faults never the good things he do and can be but our mates don't care any more! Nice car oh boy here we go as soon as one of us get a nice car our head get big we look  down on each other like a gun man with his prey in sight! Now we are better then you look at my car! remember the song I don't want no scrub? If I don't have a car how come now I'm a scrub? Strong bank account! Question to my black women if  I'm broke can you love me? Most will say hell no! But they for got this if you are my back bone together we can do anything if we stick together!

Now we come to a loving wife. Back in my mother day they stood by their man why they knew that 

if we work together we can have something that why they been married for 60 years but we ask this 

dumb question how can you stay with the same person for so long! Because back then a strong black women stood by her man not saying he did not do wrong because he did yes he cheated a lot that why

the women of today don't know how to be for real because their daddy or brother or some man was 

a dog so they place this on all men! But for us good men I say women you are just a wrong as those 

no good men so now we have a bunch of no good women who have fooled them self that I don't need no man! Us good men is left wondering what did we do wrong? We don't stand a chance with the way

our black women has become now I know many going to bash me for this blog but I can only write 

what is really happening today you look and tell me truth ! Last thing look at this!

Where is our back bone? Men might not say but they know a good women is the key to life!

peace pastorsvoice! good reading to all